Friends can be as comforting as a cup of cocoa on a cold winter's night, but you need to be careful who you choose! Here is some things that I look for in a friend
* Respect: They've got to respect me for who I am and not make fun of me when I do something crazy!
* Nice: They've got to be sweet or it won' t work like if they insult people or you on a normal basis it doesn't work for me!
* A good listener/ advice giver: Because I need someone who will listen and give me advice to my problem not the one who the problem is about!
* Just someone who will be there 4 me: I need someone who will stand up for me no matter what and won't gossip about me no matter how mad they get!
* A person who won't fight: Someone to be with when I'm down who I know will not get mad at me anytime soon!
* A no expectations friend: Someone who doesn't make me feel like I have to be someone I'm not to be friends with them!
Those were some of the things I look 4 in a friend. Now next subject things you can't ignore if a friend does this to you:
* Gossips about you regularly even if you were sitting right there!
* Takes advantage of you and your kindness
* Lies to you ( by not addressing her when she does this your telling her it's ok to lie to you )
* Makes fun of you all of the time.
* tells you if you don't help me cheat then were not friends! ( the taking advantage begins )
* Or if she gives you the cold shoulder every other day! ( on again off again friend )
Those things you CAN'T ignore!!!
If you and a friend get in a fight here's some tips that I use
* Talk it out
* LISTEN
* Tell her what you think happened
*NEVER give the cold shoulder it doesn't work!
* And put yourself in her shoes what is she feeling???
Ok that's my entry if you have something you think I should write about or if you just want to give some feedback leave a comment!
Until next time,
- Smile96
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